What do we need to do to make true love a success?
By True Freedom!.
Marriage is a coexistence. It is good to know that there are many problems in this relationship that can cause conflict.
It is a lack of sexual pleasure.
We should not be ashamed to teach on this issue This problem is one of the biggest problems that cause marriage breakdown. If a percentage rise is required, it holds 50.55%. This is not taking advantage of God’s gift of happiness. God’s Word clearly sets out what sexual relations between husband and wife should be like.
1Cor. 7/3,5 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Do not deny each other except when you have agreed to devote yourselves to prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
Heb .13/4 Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled. for fornicators and adulterers God will judge.These problems are:-
↪️ Attitude problems.
The attitude problem is that people view sexual relations between husband and wife as a sin. For example, there are those who are afraid to go to church because theyj think they are sinning. The Word of God says that sexual relations between husband and wife are chaste. Heb 13/4
↪️ How they grew up in the community
The way we were raised raised us with the threat that sex is adultery and a terrible sin, so this pressure continues even after we get married.
↪️ Lack of true love for each other
This is one of the couples whose love is not based on true love and shows a lack of desire to have sex with their spouse. 1 Corinthians 7/5
↪️ Inability to protect each other’s wishes/ selfishness
Sexual intercourse between husband and wife must involve the will of both. Most commonly, girls are thought to have their own desires, not their own. But we must understand that just as men achieve their desires, women also have full desires. Ignorance of this has led to marital problems.
↪️ Poor health –
People can be affected by various reasons such as natural disasters or accidents. This affects the sexual relationship between them. Examples include head injury, spinal cord injury and genital injury.
↪️ Learning about something other than marriage.
This is the problem that arises when they break God’s commandments and fall into the sin of adultery, and they get what they want.
↪️ Fatigue due to overwork.
People who work hard and mentally feel tired and lose the desire to have sex because of the fatigue, which causes problems in marriage.
↪️ Lack of balanced diet.
Malnutrition reduces sexual desire. This is because there is no substitute for the discharge that comes out of the body during sexual intercourse.
↪️ Try to do what they see.
This is one of the biggest problems facing us today. In other words, they lose happiness in their marriage when they fail to do what they see when they try to do what they see by watching pornography. In addition, he considers himself inadequate.
↪️ Lack of hygiene. Quality is one of the most important factors. But it also causes people to lose their sexual desire due to lack of hygiene and bedding.
↪️ Widening age gap is one of the problems in marriage.
Because as you get older, your desire for sex decreases.
Follow us for more spiritual articles that you find educational and entertaining I think a girl, a man thinking of becoming a father, a mother, twins in a romantic relationship should read a book. And I believe that mental health professionals should not hesitate to give good advice that will save many mothers in such cases.
↪️ It is especially good for girls to read books like this. Because of the real life the author’s family lived. She says she got her family’s permission to write this because she wanted to send a message to women in such lives.
She also takes a stand out from the books she has written. Her love story begins with a familyless man who lives in the countryside. She starts following the homeless boy who lives outside.
She sneaks in and takes her family in as I go into their house and bathe. She gives him her father’s clothes, hides food and puts it in his place. Later she sneaks him home and takes him in and rules him in her bedroom. She takes care of him from his illness.
Her father sees this and beats the child until he bleeds. The child and her have been separated since this day. Not seeing each other.
She thought the child had died at her father’s hands and believed it. She fell in love with the man she knew for the first time. When her family, her mother and father, fight, she watches alone before, but later with him, they both see her father’s actions against her mother, her father’s cruelty.
↪️Then the one she finds out about someone else. After moving to another area. The first thing missing here is that the man she met asks her if he wants to have sex with her from the moment he sees her. The biggest disrespectful action from the man. But she goes beyond that too. After 6 months they meet again with the same person she met. I repeat the same words to him this day. Yet in front of someone else for his sister.
She says, “Not everyone says what they think. I respect your brother saying what’s on his mind.
↪️This is how her love relationship begins. She writes every day. Her first love relationship, her current one, her career situation is what she wants to be. It will raise it. She also creates her own work. The person you start dating again will love her work. Sometimes he looks so gentle.
↪️Something happened. She goes to a restaurant and sees her first love. The two of them ask each other about their love affair. He tells her he has a romantic partner. Then she decides to marry this man she met again.
↪️ They are entertaining. She forgives him when he first hits her. He buys their private homes. They will begin to live there. When they return to the Restaurant again, she meets her old friend again. That day I see the migration in her eyes. Her second friend also sees that his hands are tied.
↪️I doubt it. He suspects he hit him. If she goes to the bathroom, he will follow her and ask what she is. She says it’s okay. He said, “Leave this man alone. You don’t have to be like your mother, leave this man alone. If this happens, her current partner will come to her. The two fight each other. His usual behavior sets him off. After bothering her as much as he wants, he apologizes again. Her first friend comes to her place and apologizes for disturbing her life. “If you have any problems, call me.
↪️She forgets to hide the number. Once again, her second friend sees the number and starts going crazy. He breaks her phone and apologizes after torturing her as much as he wants. She understands his problem and is patient with him in order to help him recover. When there is peace, someone who loves her. She loves it right.
But his character cannot leave him.
When he starts fighting for the third time, his memories of the gifts she received from her ex-boyfriend, everything he wrote, everything she wrote about him shows her many sufferings. She refrains from imitating him to think of the behavior her father was showing to her mother. She will suffer until Ammanni comes back to herself and becomes the right person.
↪️ She later calls her first friend to save her life. He comes and picks her up and takes her to the hospital for treatment. She rests for days at his house.
The best thing, she finally decides to break up with him after she stops me bleeding. The main reason for his annoyance is her eldest love. Is it easier to give up or accept that? How many lives have such people left empty, especially in our society? How many lives have they tortured?
We must learn how to live in a healthy relationship now, and build a healthy family life for our children in the future. She’s so Strong women. At least she thought of something good for her children in the end, even though she was hurt a lot.!
Another incredible book i have read again. It’s about keeping in my bookshelf , and recommended for everyone.
