Best life And True Love Christian Marriage
CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE EDUCATION.Factors needed when choosing a marriage mate.
Some people say that when they speak, they say that they dreamed that they saw abalone If they were married or that they àre married to her. This may be true in some places. In some places it may be false or unsuccessful. The Bible (Eccl 5/3) says that dreams are not convincing because too much work causes dreams. So what to do is good to take experience from married people. Advice from people with good intentions
it is preferable to accept.
When you find the person of your choice, it is best to stay as brother and sister without rushing into anything else. And not asking two or three people at once, And not agreeing to two or three people. It is good to research each other thoroughly before answering questions, and give each other time to answer questions.
Some people get married without choice. Could this be the cause of the problem. According to some people, if I get married, I will get out of trouble.
This is hurting a lot of people. Few people can succeed. When a person is in trouble, if you have something, you will die, I cannot live without you, they say good words and get married because of trouble without having any desire for marriage. Once they get married, the biggest problem comes. For you, death will turn into killing you in the first place in times of trouble after the circumstances are right.
So when you choose someone it is good to check yourself carefully Why you chose or were chosen, loved/Loved. What is this person? Who? What was behind it? Because it could be like Saul screaming in the background, crying in the background of a poor mother, who threw/dropped a lot of babies in the bathroom. So who is this person? It is good to ask yourself and examine your neighbors. I mentioned it in Parts 1 to 8 and don’t think all these reluctant flowers are safe. Be careful you get off the mouth of a monster. The Word of God (Hebrews13/4 says that marriage is honorable among all, and the marriage bed be without defilement! God will judge fornicators and adulterers so beware brother Sister.
AND THE MARRIAGE BED IS NOT DEFILED!
What command did Paul give about marriage? 16 After giving counsel, “Let marriage be honorable among all,” Paul warns: “Let the marriage bed be without defilement; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge.” (Hebrews 13/4) Paul used the term “marriage bed” to refer to sexual relations. Such communication is “unclean,” or pure, only if it takes place within the marriage arrangement. Therefore, Christians are inspired to “rejoice with the wife of your youth!” they obey Example 5/1
The Benefits of Virginity
◈ How happy should women be who marry their husbands in virginity?
◈ Why is it good for you to stay a virgin until you get married?
➲ It is a sign of your holiness, you are the one who is not defiled.
➲ It is a sign of your honor, you are glorious.
➲ You have a good reputation in the community, no one will blame you for adultery.
➲ You can call your husband “the father of my virginity”.
➲ Your marriage is more likely to be loving and peaceful because you will marry your glory.
Many marriages break up because of virginity. He who marries a woman in his heart, how many men have you been with, how long have you been a prostitute,
Who was she with?” He doesn’t love or trust her wholeheartedly.
Please note
You will not look down on your husband’s face with shame, you will not regret it, and you will always rejoice in your honorable marriage.
↪️ God gave you this gift to marry. God has a reason for doing this, not a mistake. Only your husband deserves to receive this gift from God as a sign of honor! parents the main way to distinguish between virgin Men and Women.
Reasons why people don’t get married A) Multiplying qualifications Many people remain unmarried because they do not find someone who fully meets their qualifications. What we need to understand No one in this world meets our requirements 100 percent; but two defective people come together and become perfect. For example, appearance, occupation, educational level, character, etc.
B) Fear of marriage Others think that all marriages are the same based on the information they have heard and seen about marriage. As a result, they avoid marriage.
C) Lack of courage These people are afraid to ask their loved one and therefore do not ask the person they love. Name they love marriage when they but because of their fears do not get married.
D) Viewing marriage as a prison Some people avoid marriage because they think that divorce is a loss of rights, a trap.
E) Rejection This is when they are rejected by their loved one and they avoid marriage because they think everyone has betrayed them and they don’t want to be hurt a second time.
F) Lack of power These parents do not get married due to lack of money even though the time is right for them to get married.
G) Prioritizing other things over marriage These people focus on different things rather than marriage and want to get married when they find what they are looking for; but they remain unmarried because they don’t get it the way they want it. They get what they want and lose the marriage they want. (E.g. Education, resources, helping families
H) Having sex before marriage The biggest problem in this generation seems to be that sex before marriage is allowed; people who fall into such sin will avoid the marriage that God instituted because they will get something they want without getting married. Such people cannot be happy with one because they see the behavior of many people. And that’s why they remain unmarried.
I) Lack of self confidence Such people have a low self-esteem and think that they cannot get married.
J)Homo sexual’ Such people oppose the marriage that God instituted and support same-sex relationships. As a result, they oppose the marriage that God instituted.
Tithe This First Marriage
Nana Nation! You have a beautiful history that you are proud of. It’s your celebration of married life. The saying ‘A husband knows how to respect and manage his wife as she should be, and so does an Oromo woman keep her house straight’ may have become known to us as a statement of our identity among other nations in this country available.
Although this is what God loves and commands, this nation has made this law its custom as its morality and tradition and has been governing itself by it for many years. Marriage is an institution of God. That is why, if it is not the crime of adultery, “So they are no longer two, but one flesh; What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” Matt 19/6 The Oromo people believe in this and use it as their official morality.
Today, according to NCBI, 45% of legal marriages in Ethiopia end in divorce within thirty years. Two-thirds of these men divorced within the first five years of marriage. According to the study, the main reasons for divorce are premature marriage and childlessness.
Looking at the current situation in the country’s society, it seems that marriage has lost its place or its meaning has been erased, especially in urban areas. Many young people dismiss the idea as ‘what got me in trouble’ when talking about it, expressing that they want to live alone by doing their will on the spot in the form of prostitution. The reason they give for this is that they are not self-sufficient.
This statement, however, contains a lot of sinister secrets:
🔹️Fornication is a sin, and sin brings forth the death of the soul.
🔹️ If a person is not married, he finds it very difficult to have a calm mind, which opens the way for conflict with God. ↪️ Even if it is not obligatory, if a person does not marry, he is thwarting God’s command to ‘be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth,’ which thwarts God’s purpose for the generation that will come through that person. Children are a gift from God and Satan is using them to pretend to be civilized so that people do not enjoy these blessings.
Turning to our nation, there are some things that are disrupting this nation’s attitude toward marriage. They take two main forms: the politically induced relief and the one that Satan is habituating.
Political Relief:- Whether we like it or not, a nation is called ‘One Nation’ because it has its own identity.
There is a culture in this identity. So in regard to marriage, as we said earlier, our nation is wanted because of the high place this nation has for this issue. In addition, our nation has been oppressed under political pressure for a long time. Therefore, the nation that previously seemed to be the political majority wants to join this nation with a ‘if anything’ attitude.
Thinking only of tomorrow and taking advantage of time, they do not come to these elected people with good character, they come to take advantage of the combination of good character and the shelter of tomorrow. This cannot create a good bully because it is not based on love, and it also draws on various influences from the environment. since this problem eventually leads to divorce, this incident that happens to one or two people will destroy the identity of this nation.
Satanic Characteristics:- As the times have civilized, Satan is civilizing his devouring tactics. He does not come to a person at once and say what he wants to do, but he leads him from the least to the greatest by putting things in front of him that will lead to his goal. If you keep salt under the animals, you can take them wherever you want, right? As we have discussed in our previous articles, today not having sex before marriage is viewed as deviant or ugly, worthless. This is the first result of Satan’s misleading of many people. Now he is causing people to fall under the yoke of sin by saying, ‘Why are you getting married?’
All in all, O our people! I’d rather leave the conclusion to you, you finish! But I want to say that the Oromo saying in his saying “The fox catches fire through the wicked” is true. “Give that those who turn against us will not find anything evil to say against us, and that they will have nothing to say about it.” Tit. 2/8
Hold God with your hands, Hold the earth with your feet! By the Voice of the Martyrs of the Gospel.
